As the Diwali represents the aspects of lights and spreadness of love, it adds the meaning and reward to the environment and human beings. So the human beings spread the love and lit the lamp of peace and humanity. a person is ownself called as the wise social animal.
So also it is taken in the first list of creatures and natural resources. God and goddess have created the world and the man, but the man has created the new technology for fun and enjoyment. They are in the race of developing and researching something new and new, something better and better, something fast and faster.
All the tools and device that we are using is the main sources of development and invention. samely the many festival and occasion are held and come, people don’t miss the chance to take the entertainment. They seek entertainment everywhere.
They want fun and enjoyment everywhere. The present youth generation will not be present if any programs are organized not containing entertainment. its because the technology has made them full dependent and they can’t breathe even without technology in the present world.
In addition to Diwali or festival, I want to say and advise you that, the simple mistake make man black. A piece of wood stick burns the whole forest.
So remember the serious thing that more enjoyment and trying for more enjoying may become the ring of dangerous and might happens too. There are many things which may make your Diwali with the garden full of thorns.
If you want to celebrate this Diwali with a lot of happiness, you have to be conscious while doing the serious works. I am describing and giving you suggestion that is mentioned below which will be very effective and helps you for celebrating Diwali without any objection, only full of happiness.
1. Avoid bad planning:
Concentration on celebration may take your life too sometimes. Man are very hurried up for entertaining and for entertainment. Diwali is not like the festival holi that the every should be tasted and can be done according to wish. It’s the festival of humbleness and generous.
Those who makes their body and controlled in their own,they can only enjoy the realty of Diwali. A person makes the bad and unnatural plan that calls the problems and obstacles themselves.
All the thing should be done and managed in very sensitive order, that can never give you in the problems. Easy and comfortable way sends you in the dense of problem and problems only.
So be careful in this Diwali, don’t include the things and works in your planning list that may arise the problem and make your Diwali celebration colorless. Everything depends on your mentality, how you react and fight with the obstacles.
the problem is never if you have a solution, and the problem is very big if you have not the solution. The men can swims in the sea too if he wants and know to swims. And the men can sinks in the ponds also if they don’t know to swim.
The moment of Diwali is also the same, if you make the good plan your celebration will be good, if not your celebration will be meaningless. So keep on minds don’t rise the steps of resulting the bad and damages output.
2. Stop teasing to girls and others:
The bad habits result bad and good habits guarantees gives a good respect and good self-esteem. we have to behave well with everyone because we also expect good behave from others. teasing to girls may arise the problems of quarrel and if it is serious you will sent to prison.
There will be not excuse for teasing the girls. Girls are very sensitive human beings. They only want respect and love, not the hate. you can only tease the girls if you know her better.
Without recognizing and without thinking the outcome of the result,you do so then the environment of discrimination and hate will create. If you love the girls it is your right to tease your own and even to your girlfriend. You can also tease anyone if you take permission from him or her.
No man wants his disrespect in public and alone. There are nowadays many organization which are working for saving and educating the girls. Empowering the strength of girls, nowadays have become very matured. So be careful if have planned or want to tease anyone.
But I think it’s the right time for you if anyone lives in your heart to say your internal feelings on the occasion of Diwali. The festival of lights may bring lights in your love and life too. the time and tide wait for the nod. The time is only observed is it the right time to do something special or.
no one has given the rights to tease the girls, it is also not the person or girls wants that somebody teases me. So hurting anyone will make your intention bad too. so love all respect all.
3. Avoid loudspeaker party:
The environment of Diwali is itself lighting and sounding by the blasting of crackers. if you do the loudspeaker party,the surrenders and your neighbor may abuse you and disrespect you. Hurting the heart of your neighbors is not good for you and society too. people thinks negative about you and you will be kicked by the society.
The society may send you to jail or to the prison. if have the passion of doing loud speaker party, you postponed the planning for a few days later. I also know the party is more enjoyable in the loudspeaker music and breaking self-dance no steps any rules.
But this type of activities make you shame in front of your society and family member will also abuse you. the party can be done at any time or in any occasion but Diwali comes only one time in the year.
So celebrate it without making and creating noise. The celebration of Diwali must be wonderful and peaceful. Doing party does not make you great but being participation in society programs helps you to determine your importances.
Together doing the works complete fast and make the coordination in the friends and relatives. The party is also of different types. If your passion is to do a party in Diwali compulsory, it is my advice to yo is,you can do party peacefull not giving the full volume in the music.
The party is necessary for the Diwali but loud speaker is not good. If the party organized, the combination and cooperation will be coordinated in the single shadow of the single tree or single family. Love should be spread crossing the boundary of impossibilities.
The party should be also done and celebrated but in low volume and peacefully so that no one gets disturbs. Though it’s a common practice amongst Indians to tag along with a friend for a party where we know no one, it become the emergency need of the moment to large our relationship.
The different smell of different dishes on the display are saying to crack the bottle and break the table by dancing because we have gotten the chance and reasons to celebrate and doing the party.courtesy the free flowing booze and lip-smacking kebabs on display, plates of smelling items and supports of time and environment we suggest that the least you can do this festival is refrain from forcing yourself into a big and crashing party.
Please make yourself available for the parties that you have been invited for and also reminds your own relatives and family members to make the party grand and most grand.
The lights and color of the party must be shown to the party. But be conscious about loosing emotion and constellation, you can forget to recognize yourself. It will be only possible if you crash the party in systematic and peacefull manner.
4. Be calm and honesty :
Showing the habits of bad, affect your works and personality. the good man only rises like the sun by spreading the lights of honesty and truth. If you are liar and cheater in nature,no one will believe in your voice and works. You will be also neglected from the eye of society and elders.
Behavior is the person asset which determines the person value and is also evaluated the importance of him.. Person is evaluated by their behavior. the person is mostly watched from outside looks like the great but from inside he is bad hearted.
In the different situation, the person has to act accordingly to the situation. How is the situation,the forms of works should be performed accordingly? Person of the bad heart and bad images also makes changes in their identity and shares his love and respect, but the person of outsiders are all not the blind. People also know and recognize the diamond.
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The silver can be sold at the price of gold only in the shop of a blind shopkeeper. Every man fills their heart with wishes and respect. The man is not said to the person and people give the curse to them if anyone behaves badly with him.
So person itself become conscious for the rightness of job. One single black spot makes off lighted in the white wall. A person is very much light hearted and become helps in nature. They may be changed after Diwali but their behavior is almost changed in Diwali.
All the grace and wishes, the bucket of love are spread all over. Strong and body builders are not showing the power in front of thinner. Parents also excuse the mistakes committed by their son. They don’t say and abuse after doing mistakes too.
It is the time of speaking good behaving good with other so that the person gives the blessing. The life itself become brights and lightful if the man understands and started to behave. Doing good behavior is the steps of getting something big.
The stone can be melted by worshipping and expectation. The man will show you the way if you asked the way respectively. if you asked the way angry then there must start fights.
So,it is seen in Diwali all and every people have thrown their proudness and behave like the normal human being with everyone. Honesty means the person full of their right duties and full of humanity. He or she don’t need any advice and special training for doing any task.
The man is only said as the man if he is honesty. Honesty is the best policy to determining the value of person and thought of person.so behave like the normal human beings and crates the work that all will trust you and believe you the good person.
5. Don’t participate in gambling:
People of the earth are also of different intention and thoughts. some have much money, they don’t have space to kept money and indulge in gambling. it shows the nature of human beings how they react with a poor person for money begging and how he wastes the money in nonclean place by playing gambling.
This is the game of also the Mahabharat in which the pandas have lost their all the kingdom,property and wife too. But people have forgotten the view of that epic and are not conscious about the money. If you have much money you can spends it on poor and beggers. Poor and beggers are spending the life of animal even more than that.
They pray to god and wish every minute of his life for sending the person to celebrate and brings out their happiness. All the things are being constructed and moving only by the power of god.
If the person is full of arrogant and thinks that no one is greater than them, I am the everything, that person must know the power of god. How the person becomes single in the second, how the the the person become poor in second and how the king become kingdomless after committing one mistake. helping is itself the work of name and fame.
Every hearts have not the powers to help others even though he is very much rich. but the poor person is always ready to help the beggers, stranger, and kids.
The person doesn’t become poor after helping others but absolutely become rich and earns the love from the helped person. fighting with the discrimination we, have to go forehead and builds the cultures of helping others because helping is also the symbol of humanity.
the connection of people to people build the bridge of love and which helps to promote the religion of humanity all over the world. the person who is helpful and helps the persons in any condition is graced by god and gets their destiny very fast.
Helping is also of different kinds,that may be an economical help, feelings help, official help, spiritual help and much more. Money has become everything in the present world can buy anything anywhere. Money has become the medium of exchanging, buying and purchasing of goods and services. Some spending the life of hunger because of a scarcity of money and some are wasting the money like the paper.
Never participate in gambling.it such types of addiction that make the person blank millionaire in second. no one has won the game of gambling. So even don’t think to play gambling,it will make your mind dull.
6. Stop alcohol and smoking :
Alcohol makes the mind empty and one way. People made relaxed for some hours only until the wine is working in the body. Wine is not the drink of relaxing feeling and having the tension free, it’s the poison.
It makes the mind addicted and by slowly eat and damages the body like the insects damage the woods.men have lost their thoughts and their norms and value, forgetting all the responsibilities of family members, even though they don’t stop taking it.
Some are in the cage of drugs due to their daily habits of drinking where some are situational victims. Governments spend a lot of money to make the people awareness about alcohol and drugs, but also government seems failed in stopping it. The main reasons for observing the drugs is for celebrating and another is an addiction.
But it mostly seems that people are conserving it due to addiction. the person is conserving it knowingly and unknowing both. It is the matters of suddenness when the educated person also drinks it knowingly. Some of the uneducated people conserve it for making mind free and non-loaded of tasks and tension.
they are in the pond where is difficult to swim and difficult to come out. In the beautiful celebration of Diwali, the environment should be made peace and color and lightful.
The crowd of drunkard makes the environment pollute. Drinking in control is not more harmful but is harmful so it is better not to drink and smoke and don’t give anyone permission to do the same thing.
While blowing up money on Diwali seems like the most obvious thing that one can do, it isn’t the best thing to being part of bad programs. man are some in supporting side some will be in hating side for being alcoholic. The party should be organized without alcohol and cigarettes.
Well, we think playing ‘teen Patti’ in spite of knowing a thing about playing cards and taking alcohol and smoking cigarettes, it’s the game of converting the green tree into dead tree, the most wannabe thing to ever do and in case you want to look cool this Diwali, it is better simply stay away from cards, alcohol, and smoking. Celebrate this Diwali wth pure and clean heart.
We want you to ask yourself a question, how many Diwali nights have you spent in sobriety? If you can’t think of any, then it’s time to set limits this Diwali.
Try to drink in moderation and not going beyond your known capacity, the damages will be your and the laughter will be from the people. for the last thing, anyone wants out of you is you falling down due to over drink. people will slap on your face and make a complete joke out of yours.
7. Be tension free and be happy:
Happiness is the key to winning the others heart. In the moment of Diwali, the small tension will put you in big and blunder hole. The darkness of tension will make you invisible in the lights of Diwali.
Wondering and searching the idea of constructing good uses of time and plan, you have to first be happy. The sadness face attracts the pollution and negativity and the happiness face attracts the love and increases the self-esteem. The first intention of your plan must be checked with the touch of positivity and obstacles of negativity.
The man itself arises the problems and points the mistakes to others. The Diwali is waiting and coming to make your participation with the colorful smile and colorful cooperation. Diwali is a time to share and spread happiness because prosperity is associated with a positive outlook and reality gifts,surprise towards life.
On the other hand, staying in isolation or moving around in a bad mood is unrewarding on a Diwali night and makes you like the doll. you will be hung and feel like the burnt.
The emotion of persons and the reality face is not hidden by the person, the purity itself has the power to differentiate the milking water in milk and white. organizing the concerts and some programs will be helpful for you, it will beat your tension and makes you free from the bundle of sorrows.
go out, mingle with your loved ones and share a joke or two. It is a time for family and friends. in the auspicious occasion of Lakshmi and Ganesh puja, it is advisable to refrain from devouring non-vegetarian dishes, no matter how tempting it gets.
This helps a great deal in maintaining the sanctity of the day. To cater to your feasting instincts, try whipping up some delicious vegetarian dishes. The tasty dishes makes you energetic and helps to empower the strength. Another better idea to away from the tension is to watch tv.
8. Be away from crackers:
As we are celebrating Diwali, how the name of crackers doesn’t come along with it.but as we know that excess of everything is bad. even cracking too much is also the bad. pollution of environment and errors in ear effect the person and society diagram.
making the moment rewindable and for keeping the image in the mind,it is necessary to burns and blasts the crackers.the wish of the human being is not ending even after the doing. They search extra and wants to add more contrast in the enjoyment.
Apart from these people are in the different mood and of different situations,they don’t understand your feeling and started to abuse if little lights of your crackers have touched him or her. It will be better to stop cracking crackers. The fire of crackers may damage the skin of the people. And one simple mistake will burn your all the plans.
There are different persons who are not interested in cracking crackers,its may due to their wish or may be the lack of money the children of poor people enjoys by seeing the crackers burning in the hand of rich children.They have nothing to eat themselves and fed others.
god also sometimes sees people in different eyes of discrimination. they are pressed habitually and bound with their situation. They also wish to celebrate Diwali happily. So help also them and make part of your celebration.
Lights are the symbol of truth and victory of light over darkness. making friends and participating them will large the family of happiness and boundary of sharing and caring.
There is used to listen to the different news in Diwali that the man was burn by crackers, the whole village becomes ashes due to cracking the Pataki or crackers. Crackers are very dangerous entertaining things which may take your life if you don’t know to operate. its better for you and for both society not to crack the crackers.
9. Don’t eat more:
Eating more may make you sick. The tongue always seeks tasty to eat. So in the celebration of Diwali,the tasty and delicious foods are made to make the Diwali special. people makes different types of items and decorates the dinner table with different tastes of a bucket.
People can’t control their tongue to not eat much. If the more absorption of food is done unknowingly, the problem of indigestion will arise. Trying to make Diwali special will reach you in the resting bed of hospital the problem of indigestion may occur and if it is not normal may you be the patient of the hospital.
So be always careful in dieting or having food on any auspicious day or in any celebration. Mostly in Diwali, people eat and drink more, that makes themselves uncontrolled. Pulling and pushing the food doesn’t find the way of entering and giving up the strength.
10. Don’t cook non-vegetarian food:
It’s the festival of worshipping goddess Lakshmi and we all know bitterly that goddess Lakshmi is vegetarian. It is the part of doing sin by you if you cook fish or meat items.
Men are not the carnivores class, they are categorized in non-vegetarian and the body parts are also made like that. Due to the taste of tongue, people have lost the morality and they are doing the works of self-benefitted. for making the good impression in front of people, they serve the non-veg items even it is expensive in comparison to vegetables and milk.
And another factor of benefits is that the person also doesn’t get the energy as much as the milk and vegetables provide. The tongue has become tasty, it seeks tasty and spices food items only.
11. Restricted the load of works:
Taking the too much pressure of official works and home works, makes our mind diverted and fill with dusty ideas. If you want to celebrate Diwali with full entertainment,you have firstly rescue from the works pressure.
If all the tension and bundle of works will be rounding in the mind, then it will be difficult to breathe peacefully. One side the environment is colorful and in the other than your pressure both will if collapsed there will be the occurrence of crackers blasting violently. no words will be in your mouth to share your internal feelings.
So prevention is started to become free from works or complete the works if you want to enjoy this Diwali.
12. Bore entertainment makes everyone bore:
If there is a plan to organize the programs or concerts, then you have to organize by taking the advice from everyone. the boring programs will make everyone strengthless and weakness.
Entertainment is mostly done for entertaining if it’s not done then the happiness on the face will be erased. dancing,singing is the parts of programs and the programs are mainly organized for the beating of boring. So you have to know better if your wish is to do something extra you can organize programs of entertaining.
13. Doing puja wrongly:
Goddess Lakshmi is worshiped with lots of fulfilling the wish and future dream.if the way touching the stars is wrong, how can we touch the stars? To achieve the goal, you have to also walk in the way of getting and reaching.
goddess Lakshmi is worshiped in different figures but with a system. The puja of doing Lakshmi determines the most how much you love and respect goddess, Lakshmi. we can’t get anything if the puja or worshiped is done wrong. It has also the system of worshipping goddess Lakshmi differently in the home and differently in the shop.
Mostly in the shop, the worshipping is done by pandit creating firestick, but in the home, it is done normally. so be educated and take the ideas to worshipping goddess Lakshmi serially so that the all begging wish will be full filled.
14. Gifting the same gift:
It’s not good to return the same gift that has given to you in your occasions. Love and respect should be the same but not the gift. it will diminish your value in their eye and hearts. So present something new with the right spirit.
These are things that should not be done in Diwali.
I am Jitendra Sahayogee, a writer of 12 Nepali literature books, film director of Maithili film & Nepali short movies, photographer, founder of the media house, designer of some websites and writer & editor of some blogs, has expert knowledge & experiences of Nepalese society, culture, tourist places, travels, business, literature, movies, festivals, celebrations.